As much as I enjoy my profession and adore my many dear clients, there is a downside to this that people tend to overlook. It’s a bummer that only a few men will ever bother to consider the harsh reality of this business.
What I do is risky on a few levels and I hope that you can understand the trials and tribulations that I go through on a daily basis. A rare few can actually make this work so it’s crucial to understand what it’s like for them.
I would very much like to just book someone quick, with no questions asked just like I always have. But, now I can’t. In order to keep doing this, I need everyone’s cooperation. So, please be patient with me. If I ask you questions, it’s for a good reason.
What happens is that I will receive a nice text message from someone who will politely book an appointment and then say they are here but they’re not. They lie about being here. It’s a big problem. In addition to the sexual harassments, hateful comments and disturbing texts that are, quite frankly, nothing less than abusive. This is not hyperbole. People can be very nasty. It’s awful and that’s why I need to screen.
Just read my website so that there are no misunderstandings and follow instructions. Otherwise, I can’t do this anymore.
Tantra massage is so incredible and I think it is a valuable service. It seems to me that you would do whatever it takes to preserve it. Don’t take it for granted.
The reason why there are so few providers out there (especially good quality ones) is because of the low opinion a lot of men have of them. If you can’t respect a person that is providing something that you need, then why would they want to do it? They wouldn’t and they don’t.
Treat this like you would any other profession. Be kind and respectful. Not this self entitled, I know better than you because you are inferior attitude.
I realize that this is a two way street. There are many terrible providers too. Some are unethical and misrepresent their skill level. Or sometimes they are a no show themselves. I get it. But, maybe their indifference is due to the lack of respect they get. Who knows.
Now, I’m not saying all men are like this. There are plenty of good guys that make this worth it. So, don’t come for me. But, unfortunately, these bad apples are enough to have an effect.
Anyway, I hope this clears up a few things. Please reach out to me if you would like to make an appointment and thanks for reading this.
Try to help make this industry a better place. This is a much needed service.
Peace