Frequently Asked Questions And Etiquette

“Tantra is about truly loving and embracing all of life, and through this love remembering our essence, the divine. How we make love is how we create the life we lead and vice versa.”   Osha

“Tantra is about truly loving and embracing all of life, and through this love remembering our essence, the divine. How we make love is how we create the life we lead and vice versa.”


How do I book an appointment?

Read the website for details first and know what I am offering. Please just call or text with your name and day and time you would like to come in. If you call and I don’t answer simply send me a text. I am probably either away from my phone or I am in a session. So, please be patient with me. Do not ask any risque questions. Be a gentleman: polite and professional. Remember, there are more of you than there are of me. So, be nice and respectful. What I am is offering is rare. So treat me special.

What Happens If I’m Late?

Being on time is a basic consideration for any type of appointment. But, I know things happen, so please give me a heads up. I do allow a 15 minute grace period. As long as you treat this as a business, coming a little late is totally fine. I myself can run late too. I am use to dealing with a few frogs, so I really respect clients that act like a prince and give me a courteous call. If you need to cancel, please tell me as soon as possible. If you cancel 2 times, you will be required to pay a deposit for your next appointment.

What Really Happens?

You just lay back on the massage table and receive this amazing massage. Enjoy!

What doesn’t happen?

Sorry, NO kissing, sucking, fondling ie: No sex, GFE or Full Service. Your job is to enjoy and allow yourself to accept the pleasure this service brings.

How much does it cost?

An hour session is 220. A 90 minute is 300. A 2 hour is 440. This is a standard price for a Tantra Massage. Price will range between 200-350 with most Tantra providers. A high end FBSM provider will be between 150-260. A low end Massage Parlor will charge 40-70 an hour. But, that doesn’t include the “extras” they offer with their low quality massage. Don’t bother with them. Go gourmet rather than fast food. Remember, you get what you pay for.

how do i pay?

Pay with cash. You may want to bring extra for a tip. Just like any service (waitress, hairdresser, etc.) tipping is not required but it is customary. If you like the service, show your gratitude. And NEVER negotiate price. You don’t tell someone what they should charge. If it’s too much, then try someone else.

Don’t be nervous

If this is your first time, just remain calm. I will give you instructions on what to do and ask you normal questions to break the ice. I will take care of you.

don’t think you are running the show

This is one of the biggest mistakes a new or any client can make. This is a passive service for the client. This is not an interactive session. Don’t be the boss and tell me what to do.

do not ask for pictures

Pictures are provided on the website for you to see my appearance. They are real and are me. Do not ask for a face pic. Respect my privacy just as I respect yours. Don’t worry. I am not an ugly hag.

don’t treat me like a prostitute

Why? Because I am not one. Not all sensual massage therapist are prostitutes, but all prostitutes offer sensual massage. Although this is a sensual experience, it is a passive service. Just relax and enjoy my touch and let go. My job is to take care of you physically, energetically and sensually. If you relax, I will take you to church and you will find that you’ve been elevated spiritually as well. Don’t expect any type of sexual favors or extras. ‘Nuff said.

don’t stay silent

Give me a little feedback and direction. Let me know if you need more pressure or if I am applying too much pressure. You won’t hurt my feelings. Let me know where your sore areas are or which areas to avoid if you have an injury. Tell me if you need a pillow or if you would like me to use essential oils. I will adjust. I try hard to make the experience exceptional. So tell me how I am making you feel during the massage. It will help set a good tone for the rest of the session.

don’t touch without permission

It’s very important to respect and honor my boundaries. Do not launch into a feel-for-all. Be especially mindful of my limits. I know that other providers may offer extra’s but don’t just automatically expect it. It’s not part of an FBSM. If that’s what you are looking for, you are better served going to an escort. Then you are guaranteed to get what you want without question.