Frequently Asked Questions And Etiquette

 
 

How to Book an Appointment?

I work by appointment.  Same day appointments are available. Let me know a couple of hours before. Sometimes last minute are available because of cancelations, so it doesn’t hurt to ask. But, don’t get mad or fed up with me if I can’t accommodate you. I will try to make it work.

Screening

I’m very sorry for the inconvenience!: (Due to the increase of trolls and no shows, screening has become necessary. Some guys have told me that no one does this but I know that is not true. There are some providers that don’t require screening, ( I use to be one of them) but a lot do.  

All you have to do is text me with your name, age and a day and time you would like to book along with a time when we can speak on the phone.  I also require a referral from another provider you have seen before. Include  their name and number so that I can reach out to them. If you don’t have that, provide another form of verification that you feel comfortable with such as Linkedin or a photo or some other social media. I’m not being nosey, only trying to be safe. 

For those of you who have seen several providers, getting a referral will be easy. It’s ridiculous when a guy tells me how he has seen so many providers and yet won’t even give me one name. Pfff! They’re such a joke.

It is common practice for providers to require a referral, so they will have no problem vouching for you. Unless, they state on their ad or website that they don’t give referrals. I got cussed out by a provider once and don’t want that to happen again. But, all the other providers have been sweet and supportive. We all, in a way, help each other out.

To learn why screening is required, click here

I Am Located In Westlake Village

People actually will book an appointment without knowing the town I am in. Then they end up cancelling last minute when they realize that I am too far away from them. It sounds stupid, but it happens a lot.

It’s astonishing to me how someone can book an appointment without considering my location first.

Tell Me If You Need to Cancel

Only book if you can commit. Don’t just be a “No Show”! Please, notify me as soon as you can if you have to cancel. When I hold a time for you, that means that I am turning other clients away. Please understand that if you don’t show up, not only do you lose out on a wonderful experience, but another client did as well. Not to mention, the loss of revenue for me. Treat me,  my time and others with respect. It’s just basic courtesy. Don’t be a jerk.

This Is Not Tinder or Match.com

This is my business. It is not a date, hook up or casual encounter. We are not hanging out, This is a professional service. No need to act thirsty. Please don’t refer to me as  hun, honey, beautiful, sweetheart, etc. when you don’t know me. Pet names are sweet but are reserved for later down the road after we are acquainted and have naturally become good friends.

Please don’t text only “Hi” or “Do you want to hang out?” Simply text me your name, age, day and time you would like to book.

Do not send pics of your body parts or tell me how ‘hot’ you are. It doesn’t matter to me.

Do not ask personal, inappropriate or intrusive questions like if my breasts are real or what I like in bed. We are not having a sexual relationship.

Don’t Have a Flippant Attitude About This Service

Treat this service with the same respect you do any other service.  Respect me and I will respect you.

Pricing

An hour session for a Tantra is 300. A 90 minute Tantra 400. These prices are pretty standard. For example, Tantra Massage will range between 200-350 with most Tantra providers. An actual escort will charge 500-1000 for an hour.

A high end FBSM provider will be between 150-260. A low end Massage Parlor will charge 40-70 an hour. But, that doesn’t include the “extras” they offer with their low quality massage. Don’t bother with them. Go gourmet rather than fast food.

How do I Pay?

Cash only. I have had clients reverse charges so I only accept cash.

I do not barter.

“NEVER” negotiate with me. It’s rude, insulting and it’s your way of telling me that I am not worth the price. This will be an incredible experience and worth every penny. It’s simply “Amazing!

You may want to bring extra for a tip. Just like other services (waitress, hairdresser, etc.) tipping is not required but it is customary. If you like the service, show your gratitude.

Don’t Treat Me Like a Prostitute

Why? Because I am not one. Not all sensual massage therapists are prostitutes, but all prostitutes offer sensual massage. Although my pictures are sexy, this is only a sensual and passive experience. Just relax and enjoy my touch and let go.

My job is to take care of you physically, energetically and sensually. If you relax, I will take you to church and you will find that you’ve been elevated spiritually as well. Don’t expect any type of sexual favors or extras. If I were  an escort, my price would be significantly higher…..’Nuff said!’

Don’t Touch Without Permission

It’s very important to respect and honor my boundaries. Do not launch into a feel-for-all. Be especially mindful of my limits. I know that other providers may offer extra’s but don’t just automatically expect it. It’s not part of an FBSM. and I am not a blow up doll.

If that’s what you are looking for, you are better served going to an escort. Then you are guaranteed to get what you want without question.

What Really Happens?

You just lay back on the massage table and receive this amazing massage. Enjoy!

What Doesn’t Happen?

Sorry, NO kissing, sucking, fondling ie: No sex, GFE or Full Service. Your job is to enjoy and allow yourself to accept the pleasure this service brings. Even though there are no sexual activities, this will be the most erotic and sensual encounter you will have ever experienced.



Don’t be Nervous

If this is your first time, just remain calm. I am friendly and will instruct you on what to do. Follow my lead and you will enjoy your experience. But, please feel to speak up. This your massage and I will customize it to your needs and wants.

You are not Running the Show

This is one of the biggest mistakes a new or any client can make. This is a passive service for the client. This is not an interactive session. Just let go and allow me to lead you to a higher level of consciousness and tactile bliss.

Do Not Ask for Pictures

Pictures are provided on the website for you to see my appearance. They are real, accurate and are me. Do not ask for a face pic. Respect my privacy just as I respect yours. Don’t worry. I am not an ugly hag.

Now, I have heard from some clients that other providers were either not the person in the pictures or that the provider was heavier or just didn’t look as good in real life. I get it. But, I am not that way. My pictures represent me well. I want you to be happy and to return.

If You Are Running Late

Being on time is a basic consideration for any type of appointment. But, I know things happen, so please give me a heads up. I do allow a 15 minute grace period. As long as you treat this as a business, coming a little late is totally fine. I myself can run late too. I am use to dealing with a few frogs, so I really respect clients that act like a prince and give me a courteous call. If you need to cancel, please tell me as soon as possible. If you cancel 2 times, you will be required to pay a deposit for your next appointment.

Respect My Privacy as I Do Yours

There is no reason for you to research me on the internet. That’s a violation of my privacy and I take it as a threat. I am providing a service for you that is unique and rare so, don’t ruin it by being intrusive. That kind of entitlement just creeps me out. You don’t need to know my personal information just like I don’t need to know yours. This business is already very sketchy and hazardous as it is. I use a stage name to keep some anonymity. This doesn’t mean that I am a disingenuous, a scam or a mean person like one of my clients was accusing me of.

Don’t Be Self Righteous or Judgy

I had a potential client text me that my pictures make me look like an escort and that I should cover up. That’s why it’s important to read providers ads and websites. Don’t assume and especially don’t judge me like that. I am offering a service that is hard to find.

Please understand that my pictures do not mean that I am offering sex. They are simply to show you how I look. This seems to be important to a lot of men.

I really don’t need to be corrected on how I advertise. I am not being misleading or trying to fool anyone so I don’t understand why someone reaching out to me would have such an attitude.

My space is a no judgement zone. And, that sentiment applies to both sides.